dont tell me what to do

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And about you telling me not to get plastered…
Really, you should know better
1. I feel compelled to not do what you asked.
2. Possessiveness, or trying to control is not allowed in what we have.
3. I’m a big girl.

Before you get me wrong, I think its sweet that you don’t like the smoking, or the scoping out guys to buy me drinks. I’ve always taken possessiveness in stride. I think its endearing. I’m a secret traditionalist. I’ve always believed men should have a say in how their women act and in what they do. But that’s not allowed. Not between us. Issues. You cannot be possessive because you just can’t. and I can’t respond to that because if I do, I’d be fooling myself into thinking that we have rights to each other, which we don’t. issues.

So, you can look all disapproving when I have a cig or when I talk about drinking, but know that I won’t necessarily do as I’m told.